What Teachers Can Learn from Simon Cowell
Posted by davis on 01 Aug 2010 | Tagged as: Classroom
Depending on your point of view, you either think Simon Cowell, the now-departed judge from “American Idol,” is a jerk, or a genius. Or you might just think he’s mean, arrogant, cruel, entertaining, usually right, often wrong, or a little of bit of each.
While I agree with almost everybody that Cowell phoned it in last season as he prepared for his departure, I have been pondering this question in recent days: Is there a lesson or two or three we educators, er, teachers, can take from this bratty Brit? Maybe.
Teachers can not treat kids like Simon treated contestants on “Idol.” If we did, we would be in the principal’s office the next day, explaining why we told Tommy he was dreadful at Math, or had the writing skills of a toy poodle, or needed to think about NOT moving onto the 11th grade because it would be a colossal waste of his time and ours. Can you imagine? No, we can’t, and shouldn’t, “go there” as teachers. Mr. Cowell went there regularly in front of 20 million viewers. Ouch.
On the other hand, Simon was also brutally honest, and often correct about the wannabe singers he judged each week. So what exactly is wrong with a cup of honest feedback? Nothing, really. It is what we should be providing our students all the time.
When I was coaching, a parent who was also a highly-placed administrator in the school district told me this the day before baseball tryouts began: “If my kid is ever average, cut him from the team. He needs to move on and find something he is good at. Just cut him.” That happened ONCE in all my years of coaching.
Each week on “Idol,” I saw Simon try to explain to numerous singers that they just did not have it. His message, it seemed to me, was to keep looking for something you can excel at, but this music thing isn’t it.
Should teachers do something similar in the classroom? Sometimes, maybe we should. I have had a number of kids in broadcasting who really needed to move on to something else. I mean, fine, take the class, enjoy the experience, but seriously, do not pursue this as a career. Most figure that out on their own, by the way. It does not mean they are failures.
I have no problem criticizing my kids’ work, and challenging them to step it up. In fact, most of them find out early on I am very hard to impress. Lillian Olive and Rachel Miles, two of my top students in 2007, won the RFK Award. They claim the first time I said anything nice about their winning story was on our way out of the ceremony that night in D.C. I still deny that, but I also can not prove them wrong.
So should we channel our inner-Simon in the high school setting? Now and then, yes. I think students deserve total honesty most of the time when it comes to their work. But I have had teaching and coaching colleagues through the years who have had a very difficult time providing such feedback without making it personal, or coming across as cruel.
That is why getting honest with kids requires us to get honest with ourselves. Criticism should only be offered as a way to help someone improve. Otherwise, we’re just being mean. They do not need us for that. Too many of them get that at home, or in the hallways, everyday.
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